Change Your Talk!

One of the biggest barriers that one will find towards achieving any goal, is how they set themselves up to succeed or fail.  We live in a society where it seems we set ourselves up to fail far more than we set ourselves up to succeed.

One of the best methods to set yourself up to succeed is to speak with authority over your own actions.  Whether you are trying to make changes to your nutrition, or trying to figure out how to get to the gym often enough during the week…start taking authority over those situations.

A few things that you can do…first for your nutrition.  Remove the word can’t!

Instead of saying something like “I can’t eat cake” and feeling like you are literally leaving something on the table or beating yourself up, embrace the phrase “I don’t eat cake”.  Or you might have a phrase such as “I don’t eat sugar, unless it is a birthday party”.  The difference in the phrasing simply is a matter of in one instance you are a victim (can’t) and in the other you are taking a stand and owning the decision.  One is empowering (don’t) and one is deflating (can’t).

The same is true about your training.  First let me give the disclaimer that I know that life happens and things do not always go as planned, but you can commit to getting in some sort of workout and not accept the excuses we tell ourselves.  We will say things like “I will go to the gym, if I’m not too tired” or “I will just see how I feel”.  Get rid of the disclaimers and go no matter how you feel.  If you absolutely cannot make it to the gym, commit to going for a walk.

Yes, it is very yoda-like.  You either will or you won’t.  There is no try and the best way to be successful is to not give yourself any excuses before you start.  If life happens and you can’t make it, great…accept that and be content, but don’t start the day or week by sabotaging your efforts.  When we add a qualifier or a “but” to statements, we are already in the mindset that we are going to be too tired to do anything.

Start your Monday by saying “I will get to the gym 3 times this week.” or “I will work out 3 times” That’s it.  Nothing else.  Keep that front and center, not the possible reasons you won’t be able to do something.

It’s Monday, commit to getting better an leave the obstacles and excuses behind you.

Circle of Influence…Control What You Control

If you have read Steven Covey’s 7 Habits book, then you know about the circle of influence and you know about the circle of concern.  In a short snippet, the circle of influence are those things that you have direct control over.  In the book it would be things like your clients, your family, your schedule, etc.  The circle of concern are those things that we find ourselves worrying about but cannot control.  From a business standpoint these are things like, the client who might use your business, the weather…anything that we have no direct control over.

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I want to take a minute and have you apply these same principles to your training.  I want you to stop focusing all your time and energy on the things that pop up in your circle of concern and focus more on your circle of influence.

These items fall into the category of circle of concern:

  1. Everyone else’s range of motion
  2. Everyone else’s time and rep count
  3. The weight on your neighbors bar
  4. The weather
  5. The actual workout
  6. How your coach deals with all of the above

You cannot affect these and you cannot change these items.  And more importantly focusing on them helps you in no shape, form or fashion.  If you spend all your time worrying about these things, then you neglect to get better in the areas that you need to get better in.  The areas that you directly influence…the areas we call the circle of influence.  These are:

  1. Whether or not you show up daily
  2. Your nutrition and sleep
  3. Your range of motion
  4. The weight on your bar
  5. Your mindset and attitude
  6. How you and your coach approach your workout
  7. How you handle adversity
  8. Your effort

The neat thing about focusing on the things that we can control, is it has a carry over effect into the things that we cannot control.  If we are consistently showing up, pushing ourselves, moving correctly, eating right and sleeping well.  Others want those results and we have the opportunity to share that with them.  We continue in our path of controlling what we can.  Set the bar high for yourself and push yourself constantly.  All the coaches know that CrossFit thrives on intensity, but that intensity comes from within…by pushing yourself to be better…not worrying about the person on the platform next to you.

See everyone at the lab!

What does a BodyLab Athlete look like?

We recently put a post up on Facebook from one of our Clean and Jerk Days.  As I flip through the pictures of all the people that train with us, I am reminded of how much fun it is to train athletes that are diverse.

The athletes that train with us are not all headed to the Games or to the next major competition.  Some of them are working out to chase their kids or grandkids around the yard.  We celebrate the diversity of our athletes far more than their desire to compete.  We celebrate a healthy lifestyle and the quest for new challenges.

The BodyLab athlete is not afraid of challenges and competing.  They are willing to run the obstacle course, learn to handstand walk and work on getting better in all areas of their life.  They will look at the whiteboard and say “I hate doing wallballs, but let’s do this!”  Then they will give their best effort and cheer on the person next to them.

I love our community of athletes and coaches because we embrace the “masters” athlete.  The one that has a few more years on them than your average fire-breather.  But don’t be mistaken, they can and will take you out back and give you a whoopin’ on the track, on Grace, or on Karen.  They put in the work and train to be the best they can be.  They compete and we show up to support them.

What does a BodyLab athlete look like?  They look like you and me.  They are the young and the young at heart.  The BodyLab Athlete is anyone who wants a better life and understands that they are in control of getting that life.  They understand that it starts within.  It starts with accepting the challenge to change and be better.

When you are ready to accept that challenge, we will be here.  We aren’t going anywhere!

Our Job and Your Job

One of the tricks that we all must accept as coaches is that our goal is to help you reach your goals.  We are here to make sure that you are progressing adequately and that you are seeing the results that you want.  We are here to offer tips, advice, and training protocols to help you get there.  We will talk to you about how often you are training, if that is too much, not enough or just right.  We will offer suggestions for challenges to take on (run that 5K, half marathon, sign up for the competition, take on an O-lift meet) and we will do our best to tell you what you might want to hold off on doing.

We also will encourage you to look at your nutrition and how that is helping or hurting your ability to maximize your progress.  Included in how we fuel our body, as coaches we will do our best to ask questions about what your recovery regiment looks like.  How much do you sleep?  How much recovery stretching and mobility do you do?  Our job is to ask these questions and provide opportunity and means for you to reach the goals you have set out.  BUT this is all that we can do…the actual work, the hard part is your job.

You must choose to take action!  You must choose what you are going to do with those suggestions and tips.  You choose whether or not you work on your lifts or not.  You choose whether or not you work on bodyweight movements and gymnastic skills.  You choose if you want to take training for those challenges seriously or not.  The choice is yours ultimately for everything that you accomplish in your time with us at the lab.  You have to draw some lines in the sand about what you are going to allow and what you are not.

What you eat, how much or how little sleep you get.  You choose.  Do you ask about stretches that help or look into mobility work or not, you choose.

The biggest not-so-small secret of coaching is that we love sharing what we know with you.  We have no problems with sharing knowledge about why we do something or why we tell you to slow down.  As coaches we love sharing if it will help you achieve success BECAUSE that is the only way we are successful.

But the action part of the equation is on you…so what will you choose today and this week, this month, this year?

Welcome Back!

Since we are located in a college town, our year begins for the most part in September.  It seems as good a time as any to use this opportunity to pull back the curtain a little and let anyone who is interested know what it is like for someone to start their training with us at the BodyLab.  After you contact us, this is what you can expect.

First off, we encourage everyone to take advantage of the Free Week that we offer.  We encourage you to start your week on a Monday so that you can get a good feel for what a typical week of training looks like. After one of our coaches has talked to you about your current training, goals, and answers your questions about our style and format, you will be tested.  No, really, you will take a small fitness test.  This test allows us to see several things.  Some of them are obvious such as how you move and what your starting work capacity is.  Some other things are not so obvious, where we will examine how coachable you are, whether or not you are a good fit for the gym, and help us start to see the style of motivation that you respond to.

Once you complete this test, you will be given the choice to call it a day or jump into the class workout.  The coach will offer suggestions on what is the best option for you based on your performance in the fitness test.  After this first day, we will be better able to help you figure out which plan of training is best for you.  We offer several options and the include, joining our regular classes, signing up for our next BodyLab Basics Class, or personal training sessions with one of our coaches.

A typical class at the lab will look something like the following.  Basic daily warm-up.  This is done on your own once you walk in the door.  After you have moved around for a little while, if you have some very specific mobility drills that you like to do (or that we have assigned you) this is a good opportunity to do those.  Once a coach is ready for you, we will bring you into a more specific workout centric warmup that will include mobility work for that day.  Once you complete this workout, you will be directed to the workout of the day.  It might be a single workout or a workout with multiple parts.  We will guide you through it all.  Once that is done, you will be given an opportunity to cool down and your time with us will conclude.  We encourage you to give us at least an hour to adequately get you through the warm-up and workout.

We want what is best for you and to make sure that you are placed in a position to succeed and not a position where you will be uncomfortable.  No matter what we suggest, you will be free to continue the week of classes with us and allow us to better gather information on where you are starting from.  We take great pride in what we do and the results that we are able to get from anyone who walks through our doors.

So if you are interested in trying us out, seeing what a truly healthy lifestyle looks like and feels like, click the contact us link and let’s get you scheduled for your free week!

Embrace the Struggle…

Last Friday, the workout of the day was the following:

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This was meant to be a challenge and not an “easy” three rounds.  Did you embrace the struggle?  Did you step up to the bar that is to challenge yourself to do more than what you knew you could?

This workout is designed to challenge you across both physical and mental boundaries.  It is meant to push you into that territory where we have to silence the critic that is our mind and push through.  When picking the weight to complete in this workout, you should have picked something that allowed rounds one and two to be hard and failure should have been a very real option on round three.

I commend all that people that had to start at least 4 rounds of this workout in order to finish three.  I watched with pride as people refused to drop weight but chose to attempt the challenge several times before succeeding.  They embraced the struggle and the fight.

Do you embrace the struggle that is present in every workout?  Do you play it safe?  Do you challenge yourself to move correctly and complete every rep or is finishing first what matters?

This week, commit to embracing the struggle…commit to accepting nothing less than your best!

Control What You Can!

I just got back from vacation.  It was a much needed break from everything.  As I was driving back, my mind wandered…9.5 hours in a car will do that to you.  I thought about many things, but one of the prevailing themes on the return drive was that:

We do not control success…all we control is our preparation.  But in 99% of cases we do control failure!

As coaches and as a training facility, we cannot guarantee you anything outside of our best.  We will take all of our skills and talents and tools and put them to use for you.  We will provide advice on technique, nutrition, sleep, and anything under the sun.  But we cannot control you and what you do.

You can take the advice, you can discard the advice.  Either way, it does not guarantee success.  On any given day when you walk into the gym, you might be successful…you might not.  You cannot control the outcome.  You can control your effort, your preparation and your mindset.  That is all.

You cannot guarantee yourself a sub-five minute mile time on any given day, but you can train to have one.  And continue to work towards and then maybe one day, you have it.  Any coach cannot guarantee that you will be able to deadlift 500 pounds, but they can give you the tools and programs to help you achieve it.  But ultimately the outcome is a matter of not giving up.

Success as an outcome is a process of smaller steps.  The only guarantee that we have in life is that there will always be another step to take.  We control ourselves and that is it.  We control how we react to a great day of lifting and how we react to a terrible day in the gym.  We control what happens between our ears and in our hearts, but that is about it.  We control when we give up and when we continue to fight.

Control what you can…let the chips fall where they fall and move on.  Take the next step, your journey starts now!

 

Make Your Training a Priority

There is a saying out there that goes:

If you want something done, give it to a busy person

There is a lot of truth to that.  What it simply means, is that busy people know how to manage their schedule.  Busy people are always working on something…good or bad.

But many of us, live on the excuse that I am just too busy to workout.

So I say, that you must make your workout a priority in your day.  It has to be an important thing.  I say this, not because I want you in the gym, but rather working out is one of the top 5 things that successful people do.  It is also important because it aides in brain function throughout the day and helps us stay on our toes and alert throughout the day.

This isn’t just about looking good in your swimsuit, but seeing as how it is summer, it helps.  Getting your workout in or physical activity in general will lead to better sleep and more productivity during the day.  So we wanted to give you a couple tips on how to make your workout your priority.

1) Put it on your calendar – Make an appointment with yourself, just as you would a doctor, the dentist or your child’s teacher…then show up for that appointment.  Even if you train before or after work hours, make an appointment with yourself.

2) Get Accountability – If you do suggestion #1, take time to share the appointment with someone else you work out with.  Seriously, share that appointment with someone else.  It will build accountability in for both of you.

3)  Show up – no matter how you feel, walk in the door and start warming up.  Our bodies and minds are used to environments.  Once you enter the gym, your body will adapt and get ready for what you are about to do.  Don’t just drive by.  Show up and just get started.  If that doesn’t shake whatever you are feeling, then you have every right to take the day off…but first try.  Do something small.

These 3 items will work together for a couple reasons.  The first and that we are generally wired to either prioritize our individual calendars or we will prioritize the fact that someone else is depending on us.  Suggestions one and two mean that no matter what you prioritize, they are both covered.  You have an appointment on your calendar that no one can steal from you and you have an appointment on someone else’s so that you cannot schedule on top of it.  Depending on your personality…you are responsible to the parties that will help make you successful.

Item 3, just tell you to show up.  Don’t buy into your own excuses and the voices that keep you from getting better everyday.

Break Out of a Rut!

Every once in a while, you will find yourself in a training rut.  You won’t want to get up in the morning or workout in the afternoon.  It might be hot, rainy, or completely not related to the weather at all.  It might just be a feeling you have that says, stay home.  How do you break out of these ruts?  How do you set yourself back on a track that is excited about fitness.

Try changing it up!  A lot of times we get bored.  A lot of times, we see the same patterns and elements in our workouts and just stop really wanting to do those things.  So find a different way to get the same response…increase the difficulty level a little bit.

How do we do that?

For one, step away from the barbell for one workout and try doing kettlebell presses or kettlebell snatches.  Grab a sandbag for those thrusters that you hate.  Add in one of your favorite movements to your warmup prep work (Turkish Getup Anyone?)

I am not going to lie, for some elements you just have to put in the work and suck it up if you want to consistently gain and grow, but other times, you can have that day where you allow yourself to find something new to enjoy.  Call up your coach and ask for one private session and do something different.  Focus on a skill you really want to get better at.  Work with that coach at a different pace and laugh while you train.

Try a workout from DBWod, or gymnasticWOD.  But find something that allows you to have some fun while still meeting your goals.  Give yourself, as bad as it sounds, a cheat workout.  One that you just enjoy doing because you are going through that rut.  It is better to do that, then to sit it out.

How do you break out of a rut in your training?  Tell us on Facebook!

Smaller Circles and Making Decisions…

We all have goals.  We all have things that we want to accomplish.  And if we are honest with ourselves, we all know what has to be done in order to achieve those goals.

If your goals involve looking a certain way, then more than likely you know that you need to adjust your diet.  That could be consuming more food, consuming less food, cutting sugar, removing sodas, etc.  It could also mean that you simply need to be more aware of what you are eating.

If your goals have more to do with abilities, such as feeling good when you clean, press, snatch, on the rings, with a kettlebell; you probably know that you need to be working with those elements and might even need to look into private training sessions that focus on those movements and those goals.

It does not matter the goal that you set your ability to succeed in it comes down to two things (and unfortunately they are not things that any coach can do for you).  The first is the easiest and the hardest at the same time.

You must DECIDE what you are willing to do in order to succeed.  You have to make some decisions and stick to them.  That is the hard part…sticking to them.  If you are wanting to achieve a pullup, then you have to decide to work on the necessary skills to get a pullup, possible get with a coach, and then you must do those drills and exercises.  If you are wanting to lean up, but know that you have several dozen cookies sitting at home tempting you, then you must decide NOT to eat them and then NOT eat them.  But make the necessary decisions that have to be made.  It is not just about willpower, it is about the power to stand by your word.  Make it bigger than saying, I will do my best or I will resist.

Make the necessary decisions and then stand firm on them.  If you have kids, you know what this looks like.  You tell them no, and then you have to remain strong.  You cannot waiver or falter.  That is how they learn and how they learn to respect you as their parent.

How do we know what decisions we have to make?  How do we figure that out…that is the second part on this journey.  We look for smaller circles. This term, I first heard from Josh Waitzkin in his book, The Art of Learning (if you have the time, read it or get the audio version on itunes).

In order to make the necessary decisions and make smaller circles you start with the larger goal and break it down into smaller parts.  For example if you are fighting the challenge to lean up…you might start a process that looks like this:

Goal – Lean Up

What is stopping me from that?  I eat ice cream every night

Why?  It’s in the freezer

Can you decide not to eat it, knowing it is there? No

What do you need to do in order to be successful with ice cream in the house?  Get it out of the house

Can you throw it out? Yes (But it will hurt…)

First Smaller Circle – Throw Out Ice Cream

Is that all that needs to happen in order to be successful in this goal?  No

What else needs to happen?  Eat more green vegetables

What is stopping you?  Eat out at places that don’t serve green vegetables

Why?  Always on the road

Can you change where you eat out?  No, but I can eat out less by packing a lunch with green veggies

How often? 3x a Week

Smaller circle number 2 – Pack a lunch 3x a week with green vegetables

And so on and so on down the line.  Think through what the smaller issues are that make up the bigger problem.

The same can be done on the learning a new skill or perfecting a skill or lift.  If you want me to walk you through that process, send me an email.  More than happy to.

So what are you going to decide to do today and what is the first smaller circle for you to be successful?